On June 8, 2017 at both the Public Speaking and Public Speaking Network groups on LinkedIn Charles Crawford posted under the title Public Speaking: Are Men and Women Different? with a link to his November 19, 2016 web article titled Women and Public Speaking.
In that article Mr. Crawford stated his view:
“….Fear, unease, uncertainty, nerves about public speaking
affect men and women alike.”
Quantitatively that is absolute rubbish. Of course men and
women are different! The fear monster (shown above) looms larger for women. More
women than men fear public speaking, and also women fear public speaking more
than men.
Just look at results from just one national survey I blogged
about on March 23, 2014 in a post titled YouGov survey of British adults found
they most commonly were very afraid of heights, snakes, public speaking,
spiders, and being closed in a small space. YouGov found 27% of women and 13%
of men were Very Afraid of public speaking. At the other end of the spectrum, another
post on February 19, 2015 titled 2014 YouGov fear surveys show a fearlessness
gap between men and women similarly showed that 26% of men but only 14% of
women were Not Afraid at All.
There also was a YouGov survey of U. S. adults, which I
blogged about on April 2, 2014 in a post titled YouGov survey of U.S. adults
found they most commonly were afraid of snakes, heights, public speaking,
spiders, and being closed in a small space. YouGov similarly found 24% of women
and 16% of men were Very Afraid of public speaking. There was a similar
fearlessness gap to Britain - 29% of men but only 16% of women were Not Afraid
at all.
Women also fear public speaking more than men. In another
post on November 10, 2015 titled YouGov survey done in 2014 found U.S. adults
were less than A Little Afraid of public speaking, I showed how to calculate a
Fear Score on a scale from 1 = Not afraid at all to 4 = Very afraid. For the
U.S. survey the fear score was 2.70 for women and 2.36 for men. For the British
survey the fear score was 2.79 for women and 2.33 for men.
There are three other well-known older U.S. surveys that
found more women than men feared public speaking. The 2001 Gallup poll reported
in an article titled Snakes top list of Americans’ fears found 44% of women and
37% of mean feared public speaking in front of an audience. On May 19, 2011 I
blogged about America’s Number One Fear:
Public Speaking – that 1993 Bruskin-Goldring survey, which found 54% of women
and 34% of men feared speaking before a group. On October 27, 2009 I blogged
about The 14 Worst Human Fears in the 1977 Book of Lists: Where did this data
really come from? In the 1973 Bruskin survey 46% of women and 36% of men feared
speaking before a group.
How about the Fear of Public Speaking Statistics web page at Statistic
Brain which claims 75% of women and 73% of men suffer from speech anxiety? Those
are phony statistics, and there really was no survey from the National
Institute of Mental Health. I blogged about it on July 15, 2012 in a post
titled Another bogus statistic on the fear of public speaking.
There also are two U.S. studies of university students which
used fear survey schedules to determine how much women and men feared public
speaking. On October 13, 2012 I blogged about how In a 1992 study of U.S. university
students, fear of public speaking ranked sixth for men and eighth for women.
Klieger found that for speaking in public, on a scale from 0 to 4, women had an
average fear of 2.04 versus men at 1.82. On October 10, 2012 I blogged about how
In a 1965 study of university students, fear of public speaking ranked sixth
for men and seventh for women. Geer found that for speaking before a group, on
a scale from 1 to 7, women had an average fear of 2.87 versus men at 2.59.
For over decades psychologists have known that there are
gender differences to fears. Why didn’t Mr. Crawford get the message?
But the fear monster really isn’t as big as you might imagine (and his body feathers have been Photoshopped). With training and experience he usually shrinks down to his actual size, shown above. Fluther is a little Finger Monster toy sold by Archie McPhee, as seen in a YouTube video. I got him at Re-Pop Gifts here in Boise.
Much ado about nothing! You cite one sentence from my long piece out of context, and flail wildly at a straw person
ReplyDeleteHere is that sentence surrounded by some others:
"I have given many public speaking sessions to men and women in different sized groups in different countries and cultures, and (a recent example) to senior women from Afghanistan. I have given personal coaching to both men and women. And I know what works.
Whatever biological or socially ‘perceived’ differences men and women might have as public speakers pale into insignificance as compared to what they have in common. Fear, unease, uncertainty, nerves about public speaking affect men and women alike. If men are indeed ‘more confident’ they also may be bad public speakers. Who wants to listen to a confident man talking nonsense confidently?
Above all, confidence for women and men grows naturally from strong content, not from fancy voice coaching or reducing rattling bling or a new hairdo or standing like Wonder Woman..."
I don't disagree that women's 'fear' of public speaking may exceed that of men. That applies massively in eg Afghanistan for cultural reasons. But as your own examples show, many men have those fears too.
The whole point of my piece is to make the simple point that there is no gender difference at all in what makes a good speech good, and to cite all sorts of links from different people talking about gender issues in public speaking.
How specifically to address any glossophobic fears that exist? Exactly the same techniques apply to both genders:
"The very first thing to do is learn and understand what public speaking is all about, and how you organise whatever you want to say into an argument that makes sense. There is no difference whatsoever between a great speech delivered by a man and a great speech delivered by a woman. They are both great speeches.
Why? Because they are smart and well organised and interesting and well delivered and fit the occasion perfectly. It's their greatness as speeches that stands out, not the gender of the speaker"
Does anyone here argue with that?