Saturday, February 15, 2025

Fifty questions for a first date which also can be used in Table Topics at a Toastmasters club meeting

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yesterday was Valentine’s Day. Back on February 12, 2018 I had blogged about Falling in love and Table Topics questions. A half-dozen articles in the last six months describe sets of fifty or more first-date questions which also can be used for the impromptu Table Topics section at a Toastmasters club meeting.

 

One article by Sanjana Gupta at VeryWellMind on September 18, 2024 is titled 50 First Date Questions to Make a Great Impression. Hers are divided into three categories:

 

Casual and Light-Hearted Questions [20]

Deep and Meaningful Questions [20]

Questions for Navigating Awkward Silences [10]

 

A second article by Chanel Campbell at The Glowing Muse on October 28, 2024 is titled 50 Good Questions to Ask on a First Date. Hers are divided into five categories:

 

Ice-Breaker First Date Questions [10]

Funny First Date Questions [10]

Flirty First Date Questions [10]

Deep and Meaningful Questions [10]

Light-hearted First Date Questions [10]

 

A third article by Emily Weaver at PopSugar on January 29, 2025 is titled 70+ First-Date Questions to Keep the Conversation Moving. Her six categories with 76 are:

 

Funny First-Date Questions [11]

Important First-Date Questions [12]

Ice-Breaker First-Date Questions [15]

Flirty First-Date Questions [12]

Serious First-Date Questions [14]

Would-You-Rather First-Date Questions [12]

 

A fourth article at Lifebulb on February 4, 2025 that has 58 questions is titled First Date Questions to Get to Know Someone Deeper. There are four categories:

 

Ice Breaker Questions [10]

Questions to Get to Know Someone [10]

Deep Conversation Starters [20]

Compatibility Questions [18]

 

A fifth article by Jenna Ryu at SELF on February 12, 2025 is titled 50 Non-Awkward Questions for a First Date That’ll Actually Spark a Connection. Her three categories are

 

If you want to start off light and casual [14]

If you’re looking to learn more about them – without overstepping [20]

If you’re ready to suss out your compatibility [16]

 

A sixth article by Isabelle Eyman at Camille Styles on February 14, 2025 is titled 50 Thoughtful First Date Questions That Skip the Small Talk. Her five categories are:

 

Getting to Know Each Other [10]

Personal Interests and Hobbies [10]

Life Values and Beliefs [10]

Fun and Lighthearted Questions to Ask on a First Date [10]

Future Goals and Ambitions [10]

 

Her ten about getting to know each other are:

 

 1] What’s the best book you’ve read recently?

 2] How would you describe your perfect day?

 3] What’s something you’re passionate about?

 4] What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?

 5] Do you have a favorite childhood memory that still makes you smile?

 6] What’s your favorite way to spend a weekend?

 7] If you could lve anywhere in the world for a year, where would it be?

 8] What’s the most unusual job you’ve ever had?

 9] Who or what inspires you most?

10] What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

 

I have a good reply to the eighth question. When I was serving as a medic I once had to take footprints of all our aircrew. (Footprints are one way to identify the dead after a crash and fire). I mentioned that on November 10, 2024 when I blogged about Some memories of the Air Force Reserve – for Veterans Day. The Air Force manual had vague and useless advice about inking the glass plate used for prints. But the Treasury Department had a manual on Palm Prints with great specific advice: just put a sheet of white paper beneath the glass, and then ink until you can barely see the paper. Problem solved.

 

The silhouette came from Openclipart.

 


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