There is an article by John Eades at Learnloft on June 25,
2026 titled Why Most Leaders Overestimate Their Presentation Skills
which opens by stating a startling ‘statistic’ that:
“Fear is
real, and there are a couple of common things people fear.
A survey
revealed that people’s two biggest fears are public speaking and death.
Comedian
Jerry Seinfeld landed a joke about the survey when he said, ‘Most people would
rather be in the casket than giving the eulogy.’
It’s funny
because it’s true. Most people despise the idea of public speaking.”
John did such superficial research that he confused a joke with a 1973
survey where death actually was seventh. Both are shown above. And that misquote
is a paraphrase of what Jerry said in 1993. Back on April 8, 2018 I
blogged about Misquoting Jerry Seinfeld and inflating fear five times.
He also has a 9-minute YouTube video at The Leadership Lens on June
25, 2026 titled Most Leaders Think They’re Good Presenters. They’re Not. Both
the article and video have some useful content:
“The Three Types of Presenters
Since leadership is more art than science, leaders can be introverted
or extroverted. They are women and men. They are quiet and loud. However, after
watching leaders across industries, most fall into one of three categories when
presenting.
The Informer
The Informer knows their content cold. Their slides are detailed,
their data is accurate, and their presentation is thorough. However, they
confuse information transfer with communication. That doesn’t mean it’s bad,
but it can be boring. The audience might even learn something. Their presentations
are forgettable, not because they couldn’t be better or because their content
is weak, but nothing makes it stick.
The Rambler
The Rambler has real experience and genuine passion. When it
lands, it’s magnetic. But without structure, the audience works too hard to
follow. They leave inspired by the energy but unclear on the point. The Rambler’s
biggest blind spot is thinking passion is enough. While it’s better than someone
who doesn’t care, passion without structure is just noise with enthusiasm.
The Inspirer
The Inspirer knows their content and their audience. They don’t
present at people, they present for them. They use story, tension, and
intentional moments to connect ideas to emotions. They take chances by using
authenticity to show their true self. The audience doesn’t just remember a few
of the things they said – they remember how it made them feel.”