Thursday, November 12, 2026

How to write and give an excellent wedding speech


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You can write and then give either a good or excellent speech at a wedding reception. I don’t think it is possible to make a perfect one, but have found three recent articles or posts with that claim.

 

One by Carol Leifer and Rick Mitchell at the Oprah Daily on March 11, 2025 is titled A Foolproof Guide to Writing the Perfect Wedding Speech. I previously discussed their book in a blog post on May 23, 2025 titled A brief useful little book about how to write a funny speech.

 

And a post at the Lin Pernille blog on March 27, 2026 is titled How to Write & Deliver the Perfect Wedding Speech.

 

Another article by Shelby Wax at Vogue on July 20, 2026 is titled How to Write – and Deliver – the Perfect Wedding Speech.

 

There is a very useful series of posts by Maddison Wallace at the paperlust blog. One is titled Wedding Speech Examples: Complete Guide for Every Speaker 2026 and describes The Five-Part Framework as follows:

 

1]  The Hook (first 30 seconds)

2]  Who You Are and Your Relationship (30 – 60 seconds)

3]  The Story (The Heart of the Speech, 90 – 120 seconds)

4]  The Partner and the Relationship (60- 90 seconds)

5]  The Toast (30 – 45 seconds)

 

She has six posts about specific speeches. One on June 17, 2026 is titled Maid of Honor Speeches: 25+ Examples & Templates. A second on June 30, 2026 is titled Best Man Speech: 30 Examples + Templates (How to Write & Deliver in 2026). A third on July 1, 2026 is titled Mother of the Bride Speech: 25 Examples + Templates (How to Write & Deliver in 2026). A fourth on July 7, 2026 is titled Groom Speech Examples: 25+ Templates, Toasts, and Thank-You Lines for 2026. A fifth on October 14, 2026 is titled Father of the Groom Speech: 7 Complete Speeches and a Template. A sixth on October 15, 2026 is titled Bridesmaid Speech Examples: 8 Speeches You Can Say Tonight.

 

 The cartoon of a wedding couple came from OpenClipArt.

 

 

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