Wednesday, March 19, 2025

TEDx talk on how the first sixty seconds make or break a conversation


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There is an excellent 12-minute YouTube video from TEDx Talks on March 18, 2025 titled The 60 seconds that make or break a conversation | Chris Fenning | TEDx Eindhoven, Chris says you need a sentence each on these three things which form the acronym TIP:

 

T = Topic

I = Intent

P = Point

 

An article by Chris on December 9, 2020 titled How to start a conversation at work the right way instead referred to them as:

 

Framing = Context + Intent + Key Message

 

Another article from Chris Fenning on May 24, 2022 titled 10 tips for how to start a successful work conversation was accompanied by brief YouTube videos:

 

Make the topic clear. Tip 1

Say what you need. Tip 2

Put the ‘so what’ first. Tip 3

Say how many topics you have. Tip 4

Give a summary before going into detail. Tip 5

Keep separate topics separate. Tip 6

Ask if they have time to talk. Tip 7

Say how much time you need. Tip 8

Check they are the right person to ask. Tip 9

Don’t forget to be human. Tip 10

 

But I think that to Ask if they have time to talk should come first.

 

In 2020 Chris Fenning published a book titled The First Minute: How to Start Conversations That Get Results. And in 2021 he followed with another titled The First Minute - Workbook:  How to start conversations that get results. Also, in 2022 he published a book titled Effective Emails: The Secret to Straightforward Communication at Work.

 

An image of a statue was modified from one at Wikimedia Commons.

 


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